The suitcases are packed and stacks of colourful summer clothes clutter the bedroom floor.
Winter is here and you’re heading south in search of sun and sand. Family vacations are a chance to enjoy quality time together but sometimes great times can get ugly.
Here are 5 of my Family Vacation Survival Tips:
1. DELEGATE
For example, you're getting up early for a day at the beach. The night before, write out a list of things that need to be done:
Breakfast cleanup
Prepare picnic lunch
Organize beach toys, towels and sunscreen
Fill water bottles
Load up the car
And then get everyone to pick a job! Many hands lighten the load.
2. PREPLAN
Before arriving at the beach, agree on the deal around:
- Sunscreen and hats
- Water safety rules
- Budget for snacks and activities
- Departure time
3. PACE YOURSELF
Give yourself some private time. It may be as simple as a 30-minute uninterrupted bath.
4. KEEP IT SIMPLE
Have you ever returned from a family vacation needing a vacation to recover? Don’t over plan or over schedule. Everyone will return more rested. And don't forget the deck of cards.
Leave time for spontaneity and down time.
5. CARVE OUT ADULT TIME
Share time alone with your partner.This shows your children that you value and nurture important relationships. They will survive it and learn to respect your right to have it. And they could use a break from you too!
For those travelling, I wish you a happy and safe holiday!
Warmly, Beverley
P.S. For tips on how to plan a vacation with your kids check this blog!
Beverley Cathcart-Ross is an author, speaker, certified parent educator, and co-founder of Parenting Network. Click here for Workshops for Winter 2010/11!
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