Friday, May 8, 2009

Happy Mother's Day: Improved Perspectives

Mother's Day has become one of those celebrations that can be loaded with expectations. Expectations such as, what a mother "should be" or "should do", and can lead us to feelings of doubt, inadequacy and even a devastating sense of failure!

What we hope for ourselves as "Mom" also has the possibility to lead us to wonderful feelings of fulfillment. It happens in those joyous moments when you know you've made a difference in your childrens' lives, and when their hearts shine back at you, full of love!

We'd like to share with you the following 3 inspirations on this special day - Mother's Day!

May your day be filled with the beauty of who you are, and the realization of the many ways that your children are fortunate to have you as their very own mom!

Warmest wishes, from your Parenting Network Team


"MOTHERS"

Real Mothers don't eat quiche;
They don't have time to make it.

Real Mothers know that their kitchen utensils
Are probably in the sandbox.

Real Mothers often have sticky floors,
Filthy ovens and happy kids.

Real Mothers know that dried play dough
Doesn't come out of carpets.

Real Mothers don't want to know what
The vacuum just sucked up.

Real Mothers sometimes ask 'Why me?'
And get their answer when a little
Voice says, 'Because I love you best.'

Real Mothers know that a child's growth
Is not measured by height or years or grade...
It is marked by the progression of Mommy to Mom to Mother...

"The Images of Mother"

4 YEARS OF AGE - My Mommy can do anything!

8 YEARS OF AGE - My Mom knows a lot! A whole lot!

12 YEARS OF AGE - My Mother doesn't really know quite everything.

14 YEARS OF AGE - Naturally, Mother doesn't know that, either.

16 YEARS OF AGE - Mother? She's hopelessly old-fashioned.

18 YEARS OF AGE - That old woman? She's way out of date!

25 YEARS OF AGE - Well, she might know a little bit a bout it!

35 YEARS OF AGE - Before we decide, let's get Mom's opinion.

45 YEARS OF AGE - Wonder what Mom would have thought about it?

65 YEARS OF AGE - Wish I could talk it over with Mom.

"An Ode to the Beauty of A Woman"

The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure she carries, or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes,
Because that is the doorway to her heart,
The place where love resides.
The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mole,
But true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul.
It is the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she
Shows, and the beauty of a woman with passing years only grows!


Thanks to Gillian Williams MacClean at sayingsofsuccess.com for this! Joy, Professional Coach and Parenting Group Facilitator at Parenting Network

For more information on how Parenting Network helps mothers and fathers to have the harmony at home they desire, go to http://parentingnetwork.ca/